Threat of Success : Self-Evaluation Maintenance Theory and Why We Secretly Sabotage Our Friends.DE

Cedeno, Samuel M.

epubli（2026/03発売）

• 製本 Paperback:紙装版/ペーパーバック版
• 商品コード 9783565314577

Description

The uncomfortable psychological truth of why we celebrate our friends' successes, unless they outperform us in our own field. We all like to believe we are supportive friends and colleagues. We cheer loudly when our friends succeed-until they succeed in the exact field we care about most. When your closest friend suddenly gets promoted in your industry or beats your marathon time, the congratulations often mask a deep, subconscious resentment. This dark psychological friction is explained by the Self-Evaluation Maintenance (SEM) theory.This fascinating psychological book explores the invisible defense mechanisms of the human ego. SEM dictates that our self-esteem is threatened when someone close to us outperforms us in a domain relevant to our identity. To protect our ego, we subconsciously distance ourselves from the friend, downplay their achievement, or subtly sabotage their future efforts.Uncover the uncomfortable truth about competitive relationships. By understanding the mechanics of SEM, you can recognize when your own ego is poisoning a friendship or workplace dynamic. It provides a powerful framework for separating your personal identity from your peers' success, allowing for genuine collaboration instead of toxic, hidden rivalry.