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What even is 'sexy,' and how do you do it? A tough question for trans and nonbinary queers struggling to find their sexual selves in a landscape rife with misogynistic, transphobic and homophobic ideals and expectations. In How Do I Sexy? Mx. Nillin Lore provides affirming and helpful direction based on over a decade of their own personal and professional experience as an educator, advocate, support worker and award-winning sex blogger. You're invited to do some deep introspection, find a look that feels right and gain insight on sexiness from fellow trans and nonbinary queers. You'll also find valuable tips on navigating dating sites, finding community, managing rejection with grace and engaging in sexual relationships. Principled and compassionate, Mx. Nillin Lore will help you figure out who you want to be, who you want to be with and how to make it happen-both in the streets and between the sheets.
Contents
Foreword
Acknowledgements
Chapter One: The Ventura Effect
Chapter Two: What the Hell Even is "Sexy"?
Chapter Three: Coping With Fear, Shame, Guilt, and Insecurity
Chapter Four: Making Your Personal Mantras
Chapter Five: Saying No to Traditional Gender Roles; and Other Harmful Ideals
Chapter Six: Get Your Sexy On
Chapter Seven: Dating, Flirting, and Finding Community
Chapter Eight: Trans Queer Affirming Sex; What It Is and How To Have It
Conclusion
Glossary
Resources
Index
