Full Description
Feeling adventurous? In this witty and well-informed guide, bestselling author Violet Blue explains how to choose and use sex toys to play and explore together -- and have mind-blowing sex. With a practical, sex-positive approach, she leads readers through the maze of sex toys on the market, explaining the many options available, including different materials, care and cleaning, and how to see through exaggerated marketing claims. Along the way Violet offers tips on creative usage and ideas for introducing sex toys to a relationship: how to ask your boyfriend to use the blindfold in your bedside drawer or how to surprise your wife with a saucy gift without getting your face slapped (unless that was the point). But why stop with the basics? Care to enact a threesome fantasy with two people? Set up the sexiest lighting for a webcam show? Dream of owning a steel cage dining table for captivating dinner parties? From the tried-and-true to the truly spectacular, it's here in The Adventurous Couple's Guide.Some of the tips and tricks you'll learn: * fun and creative ways to bring sex toys into the bedroom * how to enact sexy fantasies with toys * hot strap-on sex tips * vital communication skills
Contents
Introduction Chapter 1Your Toys Vibrators * Batteries and Vibrators * Keep it Clean * Dildos * Toys for Boys * Butt Plugs and Anal Beads * Sex Toy Materials Chapter 2: First Time Toys and Gifts The Sex Toy Novice * Starting Your First Sex Toy Conversation * It's Just Her First Vibrator (Or Butt Plug, G-Spot Toy, Etc.) * Vaginal Vibrations * Butt Play Basics * G-Spot Toys * Sex Toy Surprise: Ideas * The Fantasy Maker * Don't Forget the Lube! Chapter 3: Come Together Talk About It * Ready, Set... Play! * Tips for Making Sex Toys Spontaneous * How to Introduce a Sex Toy in the Heat of the Moment * Toys for Orgasm During Penetration * Sex Toys and Oral Sex * Cunnilingus * Fellatio * Anal Toys Chapter 4: Kinky Toys for Two Bondage, Handcuffs, and Sexy Restraint * Tie Me Up? * Blindfolds and Gags * Sex with Paddles, Whips, Clamps and Clips * Good Pain * Clamps and Clips * Hot Wax * More Ouchy Fun Chapter 5: Strap-Ons and Bend Over Boyfriend Bend Over, Boyfriend * His First Alien Probe * Strap-Ons and Dildos * How a Strap-On Should Fit * Do Men Wear Strap-Ons? * How to Come in Your Harness * Fun Things to Do with Your New Dick * Fun Things to Do When You're Fucking Him * The Feeldoe and Double Dildos * Other Strap-Ons Chapter 6: Teledildonic Toys: Online Sex for Two USB Sex Toys * Teledildonic USB Sex Toys * No Cybersex for Mac Users * Set Up a Webcam * Tips for a Sexy Webcam Show * Pin-Up Posing Tips * Your Camshow Chapter 7: Sex Machines Sex Machine Manufacturers * Ken's Twisted Mind (KTM Enterprises) * Sybian * Roll Your Own Sex Machines? * Ways Two Can Play on a Sex Machine * The Thrillhammer and The Powerpulse * Sex Machines, the Book Chapter 8: Exotic Sex Toys Glass and Pyrex Sex Toys * Hot and Cold Running Sex Toys * Heavy Metals, Stone and Precious Gems * Specialty Vibrators * Exotic Dildos * Make Your Own Dildo Chapter 9: Sex Furniture Furniture for Sex * Bondage Beds * Sex Slings and Swings * Sex Position Pillows * Monkey Rocker Chapter 10: Shop Smart and Recommended Resources Online Shopping, US * Canada * UK * Australia and New Zealand * Europe * Sex Machines * Teledildonics * Highly Recommended Reading * Safe Sex Info
