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Western culture has endlessly represented the ways in which love miraculously erupts in people's lives, the mythical moment in which one knows someone is destined for us, the feverish waiting for a phone call or an email, the thrill that runs down our spine at the mere thought of him or her. Yet, a culture that has so much to say about love is virtually silent on the no less mysterious moments when we avoid falling in love, where we fall out of love, when the one who kept us awake at night now leaves us indifferent, or when we hurry away from those who excited us a few months or even a few hours before.
In The End of Love, Eva Illouz documents the multifarious ways in which relationships end. She argues that if modern love was once marked by the freedom to enter sexual and emotional bonds according to one's will and choice, contemporary love has now become characterized by practices of non-choice, the freedom to withdraw from relationships. Illouz dubs this process by which relationships fade, evaporate, dissolve, and break down "unloving." While sociology has classically focused on the formation of social bonds, The End of Love makes a powerful case for studying why and how social bonds collapse and dissolve.
Particularly striking is the role that capitalism plays in practices of non-choice and "unloving." The unmaking of social bonds, she argues, is connected to contemporary capitalism which is characterized by practices of non-commitment and non-choice, practices that enable the quick withdrawal from a transaction and the quick realignment of prices and the breaking of loyalties. Unloving and non-choice have in turn a profound impact on society and economics as they explain why people may be having fewer children, increasingly living alone, and having less sex.
The End of Love presents a profound and original analysis of the effects of capitalism and consumer culture on personal relationships and of what the dissolution of personal relationships means for capitalism.
Contents
Acknowledgments 1. Unloving: Introduction to a Sociology of Negative Choice
Love as Freedom
The Malaise with a Critique of Freedom
Choice
Negative Choice
Notes
2. Pre-Modern Courtship, Social Certainty, and the Rise of Negative Relationships
Courtship as a Sociological Structure
Certainty as a Sociological Structure
Sexual Freedom as Consumer Freedom
A New Social and Sexual Grammar
Notes
3. Confusing Sex
Casual Sexuality and Its Elusive Effects
Casualness and Uncertainty
Uncertainty and Negative Sociality
Notes
4. Scopic Capitalism and the Rise of Ontological Uncertainty
The Value of the Body
Producing Symbolic and Economic Value
Evaluation
Sexual Devaluation
Shifting the Reference Point of Evaluation
The Confused Status of the Subject
Notes
5. A Freedom with Many Limits
Consent to What?
Muddled Wills
Volatility as an Emotional Condition
Exiting without a Voice
Trust and Uncertainty
Notes
6. Divorce as a Negative Relationship
The End of Love
Divorce and Women's Position in the Emotional Field
The Narrative Structure of Departing
Sexuality: The Great Separation
Consumer Objects: From Transitional to Exiting Objects
Autonomy and Attachment: The Difficult Couple
Emotional Ontologies and Non-Binding Emotional Contracts
Emotional Competence and Women's Position in the Relational Process
Notes
Conclusion: Negative Relations and the Butterfly Politics of Sex
Notes
Bibliography
Index
