When Love Hurts : A Woman's Guide to Understanding Abuse in Relationships (Reprint)

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When Love Hurts : A Woman's Guide to Understanding Abuse in Relationships (Reprint)

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  • 製本 Paperback:紙装版/ペーパーバック版/ページ数 173 p.
  • 言語 ENG,ENG
  • 商品コード 9780425274286
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Table of Contents

About The Authors                                  ix
Acknowledgments xi
Foreword xiii
Lundy Bancroft
Why We Wrote This Book xvii
Introduction xxi
Allison's Story xxv
1 Am I Experiencing Abuse? 1 (10)
Am I an "Abused Woman"?
What's Wrong in My Relationship?
Why Was I Attracted to Him?
How Did I Get Here?
What Can I Do?
2 What Is the Cycle of Abuse? 11 (16)
Is There a Pattern?
When Is a Honeymoon Not a Honeymoon?
Who Is in Control of the Cycle?
Is the Cycle the Same for Everyone?
3 How Do I Experience the Cycle of Abuse? 27 (13)
Why Do I Feel So Confused?
Why Does the Honeymoon Phase Make Me Feel
Crazy?
Why Do I Feel Like I'm Walking on
Eggshells?
Why Is the Explosion So Awful?
What Is My Experience of the Cycle?
4 What Are the Different Types of Abuse? 40 (19)
How Do I Experience Abuse?
What Is the Power and Control Wheel?
What Are the Types of Abuse?
What Is His Motive?
How Can I Make a Power and Control Wheel
for Myself?
How Might I Feel After Completing My
Power and Control Wheel?
5 What's the Abuse Doing to Me? 59 (14)
How Serious Is the Abuse?
What Is the Impact of the Abuse?
Am I Being Brainwashed?
Will I Always Feel This Bad?
6 Am I Responsible for the Abuse? 73 (13)
Am I to Blame?
Is There Another Way to Look at My
Behavior?
So Who Is Responsible?
7 Why Is My Partner Abusive? 86 (20)
Why Is My Partner Like This?
What Belief System Is Held by Abusive Men?
Why Doesn't He Treat Me with Respect?
Is It Possible for Abusive Men to Change?
What Can I Expect of My Partner?
8 What's This Doing to My Kids? 106 (18)
How Is My Partner's Abuse Impacting My
Children?
How Has My Partner's Abuse Impacted My
Ability to Mother?
Why Do My Children "Side" with Their
Father?
How Can I Talk to My Children About This?
Will My Children Grow Up to Abuse or Be
Abused?
How Do I Get Support as a Mother?
Staying or Leaving? What's Best for My
Children?
9 Am I Getting the Support I Need? 124 (18)
How Do I Know If I'm Getting the Right
Support?
What Are the Barriers to My Getting
Support?
Why Is It So Hard to Get Good Support?
How Do I Find Good Support?
How Can I Plan Ahead?
10 Should I Leave My Partner? 142 (13)
Staying or Leaving?
Why Is It So Hard Even to Think About
Leaving?
Should I Stay While My Partner Is in
Counseling?
Why Is My Partner Still Abusive Even
Though I Left Him?
Will Leaving Affect My Children's
Relationship with Their Father?
Am I Ready to Be a Single Parent?
What If I Don't Want My Children to See
Their Father?
11 How Do I Heal from the Abuse? 155 (20)
Why Does This Hurt So Much?
Is Grieving Part of the Healing Process?
Why Is It Hard to Grieve?
I Haven't Left My Partner, So Why Do I
Feel like I'm Grieving?
Why Do I Have Such Mixed Emotions About
the End of My Relationship?
Why Am I So Angry?
Is There Something Wrong with Me?
Why Does the End of a "Bad" Relationship
Still Hurt So Much?
Is It Always Going to Be This Painful?
Can I Look Forward with Hope?
Afterword 175 (2)
The Authors 177