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Description
The habit you keep trying to break is holding something you haven't yet learned to hold yourself. That's why it won't leave until you understand what it's protecting. This book examines the psychological function behind habits we label as destructive-patterns we wish would disappear but somehow keep returning. It explores why conventional approaches to "breaking" habits often fail, and what this failure reveals about the deeper needs these behaviors fulfill.Rather than treating destructive habits as enemies to overcome, this book reframes them as adaptive strategies that once made sense, even if they no longer serve us. It investigates the emotional logic behind repetitive behaviors, the role of shame in perpetuating cycles, and why willpower alone cannot address what these patterns are trying to communicate.Through compassionate inquiry, the book navigates the difference between genuine release and suppression, between understanding a habit's origin and becoming trapped in analysis. It offers insight into recognizing the conditions under which destructive patterns emerge, what they protect us from feeling, and how to create space for alternative responses without demanding immediate perfection.This is an invitation to approach your most persistent struggles with curiosity instead of judgment, to understand resistance as information rather than failure, and to discover what becomes possible when you stop fighting yourself and start listening.
