Full Description
Queer people may not have invented sex, but queers have long been pioneers in imagining new ways to have it. Yet their voices have been largely absent from the #MeToo conversation. What can queer people learn from the #MeToo conversation? And what can queer communities teach the rest of the world about ethical sex? This provocative book brings together academics, activists, artists, and sex workers to tackle challenging questions about sex, power, consent, and harm. While responding to the need for sex to be consensual and mutually pleasurable, these chapter authors resist the heteronormative assumptions, class norms, and racial privilege underlying much #MeToo discourse. The essays reveal the tools that queer communities themselves have developed to practice ethical sex-from the sex worker negotiating with her client to the gay man having anonymous sex in the back room. At the same time, they explore how queer communities might better prevent and respond to sexual violence without recourse to a police force that is frequently racist, homophobic, and transphobic.
Telling a queerer side of the #MeToo story, Unsafe Words dares to challenge dogmatic assumptions about sex and consent while developing tools and language to promote more ethical and more pleasurable sex for everyone.
Contents
Series Foreword by E. G. Crichton and Jeffrey Escoffier
Introduction
Shantel Gabrieal Buggs and Trevor Hoppe
Part 1: Queering Consent
1. Sex Workers Are Experts on Sexual Consent
Angela Jones
2. Consent in the Dark
Alexander Cheves
3. Lost in the Dark-Or How I Learned to Queer Consent
Trevor Hoppe
4. The Straight Rules Don't Apply: Lesbian Sexual Ethics
Jane Ward
5. Momentos de consentimiento: Consent in Lesbian Relationships in Mexico City
Gloria GonzÁlez-LÓpez and Anahi Russo Garrido
6. Black Femmedom as Violence and Resistance
Mistress Velvet
7. Consent through My Lens: A Photo Essay
Don (D. S.) Trumbull
Part 2: Responding to Sexual Harm
8. Before Consent, after Harm
Blu Buchanan
9. Rejecting the (Black Fat) Body as Invitation
Shantel Gabrieal Buggs
10. My Firsts: On Gaysian Sexual Ethics
James McMaster
11. Was I a Teenage Sexual Predator?
Mark S. King
12. (Trans)forming #MeToo: On Freedom for the "Unbelievable" Survivors of Gender Violence
V. Jo Hsu
13. "Oppression Was at My Doorstep from Birth": A Conversation on Prison Abolition
Dominique Morgan and Trevor Hoppe
Acknowledgments
Notes on Contributors
Index
