Real Influence: Persuade without Pushing and Gain without Giving in

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Real Influence: Persuade without Pushing and Gain without Giving in

Goulston, Mark/ Ullmen, John

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Amacom（2013/02発売）
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製本 Hardcover:ハードカバー版／ページ数 272 p.
言語 ENG
商品コード 9780814420157
DDC分類 650.13

Full Description

People won't put up with being "sold" anymore. If they sense they are being pushed, their guard goes up—and even if they do comply, lingering resentment undermines the relationship...maybe forever.

Yet, most books on influence still portray it as something you "do to" someone else to get your way. That out-of-date approach invites resistance or cynicism from those who recognize the techniques. Manipulative tactics might occasionally wear down a colleague's or client's resistance, but they fail to produce the mutual trust that sustains successful relationships. In short, they just won't work in our sophisticated, post-selling world.

In this groundbreaking book, authors Mark Goulston and John Ullmen reveal a new model for authentic influence—the kind that creates a strong initial connection and survives long after agreement has been reached. Based on listening, genuine engagement and commitment to win-win outcomes, Real Influence provides a powerful four-step method you can use to:

• Examine your priorities

• Learn about the key players and what they need

• Earn their attention and motivate them to hear more

• Add value with your questions and actions

Complete with examples of the steps in action and insights from real-world "power influencers," this one-of-a-kind guide shows that being straight with everyone means winning for all.

www.getrealinfluence.com

CONTENTS

Foreword by Keith Ferrazzi ix

Introduction 1

SECTION 1 The Problem: Why Are You Struggling to Influence People? 5

1 The Dangers of "Disconnect" 7

2 Four Traps That "Disconnect" You 18

3 The Four Steps to Connecting and Influencing 33

SECTION 2 STEP #1 Go for Great Outcomes 41

4 The First "R": Go for a Great Result 43

5 The Second "R": Go for a Great Reputation 52

6 The Third "R": Go for Great Relationships 66

SECTION 3 STEP #2 Listen Past Your Blind Spot 81

7 To Discover Their There, Listen to the Music 83

8 Master Level-Four Listening 91

9 To Influence, Be Influenceable 107

SECTION 4 STEP #3 Engage Them in Their There 119

10 Use the Three Gets of Engage 121

11 Push Their Buttons— Positively 135

12 Engage Across Cultures 144

SECTION 5 STEP #4 When You've Done Enough . . . Do More 155

13 Do More Before, During, and After 157

14 Do More in All Three Value Channels 171

15 Ask Other People to Do More 183

SECTION 6 Taking Real Influence to the Next Level 191

16 Let Adversity Lead You to Great Outcomes 193

17 Influence by Getting Out of the Way 203

18 Influence Positively After You've Made Big Mistakes 210

19 Let Gratitude Magnify Your Influence 219

SECTION 7 Putting It All Together 227

20 Case Study #1—A Fuzzy Rescue 229

21 Case Study #2—Everything Matters 234

22 Case Study #3—Poised for Life 237

23 Case Study #4—Taming a Temperamental Group 241

Epilogue 245

Acknowledgments 247

Index 251

About the Authors 259